Top Tips for Meeting the Partner of Your Dreams

We are firm believers that real love is available to everyone, and that everyone is deserving of love. Before we met, we both spent time alone, and we both spent time in relationships that didn’t serve us. It wasn’t until we truly got to know ourselves that we opened up to the possibility of love, and found each other. If you’re not in a relationship right now and you want to meet your future forever partner, keep your belief strong that love is available to you, and you deserve it. We both know from our own experiences that there was a lot of internal work that needed to be done before we were ready to find each other. We both had to work through our personal beliefs about love and relationships before we were ready to find and commit to our forever partner. This is the 8th Valentine’s Day that we’ve celebrated together as a couple, and our 4th year celebrating as wife and wife. We still feel unbelievably grateful every day to have this much love in our lives.

If you don’t have a partner to celebrate with today, keep reading for our tips on how to meet the partner of your dreams.

Focus On What You Want

Think about the kind of person you want to be in a relationship with. What are their personal qualities, their goals, their life priorities? Determine what you’re really looking for in a partner, and the type of person you feel you could connect with, communicate with, feel close to, and commit to. What kind of person is going to be a healthy addition to your life, someone who will love and respect you, and encourage you on your own path? Focus on what you want, and the kind of partner you desire to have by your side.

Know What You Deserve

Attracting a healthy relationship, means knowing that you deserve a healthy partner. You need to fully trust that you are deserving of incredible amounts of love, and if you don’t truly believe that, you need to do the work that will get you there. We attract people into our lives based on our relationship with ourselves. If you don’t respect yourself, love yourself, and believe that you deserve a healthy relationship, you might attract people into your life who are disrespectful, toxic, or even abusive. Knowing you deserve a good relationship, is an important step toward having one.

Love Yourself First

The key to any healthy relationship, is a good relationship with yourself. Practice self love every day. Know that your confidence, self worth, self esteem, peace, success, and happiness depend only on you and not on anyone else. A healthy partner will add to your life, but they won’t make you more valuable. You are an incredible human being all on your own, and you need to remind yourself of that every day.

Create Space In Your Life

If you want a forever partner in your life, you need to make space for them. Open yourself up to the idea of a committed relationship, decide that you’re ready for one, and tell yourself every day that you are deserving of one. Create space, and keep an eye out for what the universe presents you with. You can’t just think that you’re ready, you need to act ready.

Take Action

When you’re focused on attracting a long term partner into your life, you can’t just sit back and wait for them to appear. You need to take action. Put yourself out there, be vulnerable, meet people, make connections, try new things, go to new places, take risks, be bold, and seize every opportunity that the universe presents you with. The final step in manifesting anything is taking decisive action, and without this, we stay in the same patterns, living the same life.

If you’re serious about wanting to find your forever partner, you believe fully that you are deserving of an amazing relationship, you love yourself deeply, you make space in your life for it, and you take action to find that person, nothing can stop you. We are all deserving of love, and love is available to everyone.

Happy Valentine’s Day!