When we polled the women in our online community, 70% said they use sex toys either by themselves or with partners. It’s so common, and yet because there is still so much stigma around female pleasure, many queer women don’t seem comfortable talking about toys. We are always trying to normalize conversations around sex and pleasure in queer spaces, and that means openly discussing things like sex toys. Keep reading for a list of our current favourite sex toys, as well as further recommendations from the queer women in this community!
Biird
Right now, our top choice is our Obii from Biird. The design is unique, high quality, quiet, and versatile, and this women-led European brand is very inclusive and pleasure positive. We definitely recommend this one as a great option for a first time toy! It can be used solo or with a partner, and it’s truly such a creative pleasure product. The brand ships worldwide in discreet packaging. Check them out here and use our code LEZSEETHEWORLD10 for 10% off!
Nomi Tang
Another current favourite of ours is our Nomi Tang ‘Better Than Chocolate’ vibrator. It’s a very classic, non-intimidating vibrator toy. It’s small, quiet, and waterproof! This woman-owned brand has won numerous design awards, and has plenty of different toys for all needs. With lots of selection there’s definitely something for everyone! They also offer discreet worldwide shipping. You can see the full collection here.
Lulu Toyz
Last but not least is our Lulu Toyz wand. This small start-up makes a variety of vibrators and massagers, all very high quality and well reviewed. We use the Lulu 11 and we love it! A great option for a classic wand vibrator, all of the designs are cordless and some have a feature that will remember your preferred settings. You can check out their selection here.
There are so many great options out there for different needs and preferences, and plenty of amazing brands to support. We asked our community for personal recommendations and everyone shared their favourite sex toy companies! Here is a list of more brands to check out:
Wet For Her – Designed by women for the queer community!
Magic Wand – Best selling massage wand of all time.
LELO – Luxury toy brand.
Satisfyer Pro – Very LGBTQ+ inclusive company!
Blush Novelties – Huge selection of products.
The Womanizer – Very pleasure positive brand.
Vush – Working to reduce stigma around self pleasure.
There is still so much work to be done when it comes to de-stigmatizing queer sex and female pleasure. One of the best things we can do is have open conversations and normalize these topics in our every day lives!
Did we miss anything that should be on this list!? Let us know your favourite sexual wellness brand or your favourite toy in the comments below.
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